Friday, January 23, 2009

农历新年快乐


祝大家农历新年快乐,驾车的朋友们,一定要安全回家哦。

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At January 24, 2009 12:43 AM, Blogger lai hoong said...

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At January 24, 2009 12:52 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

您好!新年快乐,我是许小姐,来自怡保.
有件事想请教您,希望您可以帮帮忙.谢谢
我的表妹今年22岁,在2004年结婚,婚后生了一男孩,但婚姻只维持了一年半,原因是她恋上了一位回教徒男孩,在还未办离婚手续的情况下,去年六月她再次怀孕,孩子的父亲是回教徒男孩,而同时在十月她皈依回教成为了回教徒.(她的丈夫已经决定跟她离婚了)

现在问题是她还未离婚但已经皈依回教.那她的丈夫和孩子会怎样呢?是不是也一样要皈依回教呢?肚里的孩子出生后该怎样申请出生纸呢?

本人现在很烦恼,希望您可以帮忙,盼能尽快收到您的回复.
hnghee@hotmail.com 这是我的email add.


感谢您!

 
At January 24, 2009 1:38 PM, Blogger 王妤娴 said...

I am at my parent house in klang now. My brother's computer can't type in mandarin. Need to wait for my brother to come back and try to download software to type in mandarin.

Your counsin's case is rather complicated. I prefer to reply in mandarin here to create awareness for others too.

briefly speaking when she converted to islam, her husband can apply divorce under marriage and divorce act Section51. No implication on her husband and child. But if she plan to fight for the custody, she stand a better chance however the child need to convert to islam too. I advise not too -- will explain in mandarin later.

birth certificate -- she can still get brith certificate but no father name in it. Even later they intend to register their marriage before the child is born. The child will carry a name by ______ abdullah.

will explain futher later in mandarin.

 
At January 25, 2009 12:22 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

感谢您的回复.

关于您所说孩子的出生证明书没有父亲的名字,能否就直接放孩子的亲生父亲的名字呢??

 
At January 25, 2009 1:46 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

自从她跟那男孩一起离开后家人一直联络不到她,到最近她才打电话联络家人,所以她在改信回教的时侯并没有通知家人,到现在家里所有人都不知道这件事包括她怀孕的事,我是在上个星期拿到她的电话号码跟他联络上才知道这些事.

请问在没有让家人知道的情况下改信回教,回教徒身份是否成立呢?有机会推翻吗??(我不希望她成为回教徒)

感谢您

 
At January 25, 2009 11:37 AM, Blogger 王妤娴 said...

Nope U can't put the father's name in birth certificate even he consented.

In Muslim, you can't pregnant out of wedlock, you can only get a birth certificate with both parent's name if you have marriage certificate (you must marriage 8 months before the baby was born).

Convert to islam no need parent consent, she is adult and can make her own decision.

Love is blind sometimes --- the price to pay in this might be too high for her...

 
At February 01, 2009 12:00 AM, Blogger 王妤娴 said...

许小姐:

关于你表妹的事情 -- 处理得如何了?

你表妹的孩子的报生纸。如之前所回复的,这孩子的报生纸是不可能有孩子父亲的名字的。但是,她仍然可以申请报生纸,但是父亲的名字会放maklumat tidak diperolehi,即使孩子的父亲愿意。

当然,这样的情形,对于孩子将来的成长将会造成莫大的心理负担。这你的表妹必须能够都面对及克服。

她有没有考虑要申请之前孩子的抚养权?还是将孩子给她的丈夫?

如果能够,我会建议她将孩子的抚养权交由其丈夫。主要的原因是,她现在的是回教徒的身份。如果孩子要归她,那么孩子很可能就必需改信回教。这对于孩子的身份认同在将来会有很大的困惑及抗拒。我看过几个这样的孩子,他们很可怜。

我不是不愿去相信她的确是获得真爱,只是这样的爱情是很脆弱的。如果这个爱情将来无法持续,那么她会脱离回教吗?那么孩子怎么办?

如果可能,请让你的表妹直接联络我们的中心,我们会更详细的解答。毕竟,这样的空间可能不太适合讨论太详细的资料。

03-79563488

谢谢

 

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